Thursday, January 3, 2013
Everything I Need to Know I Learned In Relief Society
That is a strange title but it is true. I started attending Relief Society as a non-member (due to circumstances of an ex-family member I couldn't join the church right away). For three years I faithfully attended Relief Society and whatever meetings I could get to (excluding Sacrament Meetings). It was in the late 1970's and they still had the mid-week meetings. We had lessons called Cultural Refinement about other countries. We learned a couple of words, favorites dishes served, about the literature, poetry, art, history about that country. I loved the lessons and learned to appreciate other cultures. I also learned a valuable lesson being taught at the time "God don't make junk" and if he didn't make junk and he made me then I had worth. I also learned that to be creative you didn't have to come up with your whole new idea but instead you could take someone else's ideas, tweak them and make them yours in crafts etc. That there were many ways to paint the same figurines and they were all different and interesting and lovely. I learned that not all gifts and talents can be hung on walls. We are all given talents and that I was given a talent for smiling at people. I learned that it is okay to ask questions and usually the question I ask is one that at least ten other people wanted to. I have never stopped asking questions since. I learned there is no shame in not being able to do something and needing to ask someone who could to show me how. I learned I don't need to be able to do the latest crafts that I still had value. That is what I learned most of all; that I DID have value. People who know me now would be amazed to learn that when I was in college I would walk with my head down and never meet anyone's eyes. I learned in Relief Society that it is important to have eye contact with people. I learned that I was dependable. I learned that people liked me. These are not the lessons you think of when you think of Relief Society but they are some of the ones I learned. I also learned a story but I want to share it correctly so I will save it for another time. Thank you for all your kind and supportive responses to my first post..